The women I work with have such a conflicted relationship with beauty. Is it okay to care about your appearance? 🧐

If you don’t care, you’re “lazy.” If you do care, you’re “conceited.”

If you don’t pay attention to your appearance, you’ll never get ahead. If you do put thought into how you look, people might judge you as stuck-up or full of yourself.

It is the NO WIN nature of society’s beliefs that drives us crazy.

So, what’s the alternative?

Just own it. Let your beauty be whatever you want it to be.

Do you enjoy going to the salon? Just do it.

Do you feel powerful in a tailored suit? You deserve it.

Do you love how you feel with nice clothes and high-quality products?
Spending money on yourself can be exquisite self-care
AND an act of rebellion
in a culture that says ‘you’re not worth it’
and ‘the best thing you can do is give to others.’

Aligning with your highest self absolutely can lead you to prioritizing beauty and paying more attention to your body.

It can be fun. It can be play.

It can remind you that You’re Worth It.