Salon #3

PLEASURE IS THE POINT

How Enjoying Yourself Makes You More Valuable

Come grab your coffee, get comfy, and press play.

This week’s Soul Salon is about the sneaky belief that if you didn’t earn it with blood, sweat, and tears, it doesn’t count — and how letting that go actually makes your whole life lighter.

The Teaching

Isn’t it strange that we feel more worthy the more we’ve suffered? There’s even a name for it: the IKEA Effect — the harder we work to build something, the more important we decide it is. But the reality is the opposite: everything you do becomes more valuable the more you enjoy it. I’ll walk you through The Worthiness Gap — how the size of your to-do list matches the size of your not-enoughness — and the whole self-reinforcing cycle where pleasure leads to worthiness, worthiness lightens your plate, and a lighter plate makes room for the energy and enjoyment you’ve been missing.

Live Coaching

You’ll watch a full session where I coach a woman ready to step into being a spiritual mentor, but stopped in her tracks by the question, “Who am I to teach this?” The real root surprised her: she wasn’t afraid she didn’t know enough — she valued the work so deeply she was terrified of getting it wrong. And beneath that was a much older wound. Watch what happens when she reclaims the curious, creative part of herself she’d buried, and realizes the very gift she’d dismissed as “nothing special” is exactly what she’s here to teach.

Your True Calling

Another woman asked how to find her true calling — and I coached her on where to actually begin.

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⇤ Previous Replay

August 4, 2026

Meet Your Guide

Hi, I’m Natalie.

Licensed Clinical Social Worker, Certified Life Coach, and a woman who knows firsthand what it’s like to take on big projects, be responsible for deeply helping many people, and still let it feel fun and purposeful. And be something that GIVES me energy.

I’ve facilitated hundreds of healing groups for more than 1,000 women over the last 10 years.

I help sensitive, big-hearted women to heal the pattern of always giving and never receiving — so you can feel confident, connected, and at peace with yourself. Without becoming lazy or losing the people you love.

Imagine actually enjoying the life you’ve built.

When we work together, you will:

Quiet Your

Inner Critic

So your mind can feel like a refuge instead of a battle

Create Loving Boundaries

So your relationships feel better, deeper, and stronger

Claim Your Desires & Enjoy Your Life

So you wake up with energy, purpose, and contentment

The most common reaction after your first coaching session is feeling pleasantly surprised.

You thought that talking about something vulnerable would leave you feeling exposed.

⇢ But instead you feel seen, and your heart is full because you discovered how much better you feel with a different persepctive.

You doubted you’d feel much progress with this issue that’s been plaguing you for a long time.

⇢ But actually, you’re so clear on what’s really going on and exactly what you need to do to resolve it.

You were afraid that “getting into it” would make you feel worse.

⇢ But you end up feeling at peace and lighter than you expected.

Ready to have this healing for yourself?

If something inside of you is getting excited for the possibility of your own big changes, the next step is to book a free consultation.

This is a no-pressure conversation where I will tell you whether or not working together can help you. No BS. I’ll let you know the exact skills you would need to build to get where you want to go, and if your results would be guaranteed.

Whether we decide to work together or not, you’ll leave our call with a step-by-step plan for what it will take to get you to the next stage of your life. And you’ll experience what it feels like to find hope and faith in yourself that you can do it.

Your brain might be saying, “Let me think about it.”

One of my clients said it best: “I’ve been trying to find an instant solution for 20 years. And if I keep trying to find an instant solution, I will be in this same place in 20 years.”

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